WHY do the best things happen when we don’t expect them? WHY?
Somebody called you to go out the last minute….. And it was the best night ever. You didn’t feel like going out and you met your best friends that you spend all your time with now.
You needed shoes at the last moment so you just picked the first pair that you found in the first shop…. Turned out it was the best pair ever – and at a great price.
The outfit you threw on in a rush ended up looking effortlessly chic. WHY? 💡💡💡
Why do all the good things come when we don’t plan them? Is it some state of flow that we enter or are we in alignment with our authentic self? Or, we actually don’t know what we need until we stumble upon it by mistake?
“A person often meets his destiny on the road he took to avoid it.”
Is it about emotions? – We should not be excited too much – and if we take it easy, the life gives us the best surprises without our intervention?
Is it about giving up control? Letting the life lead us?
I don’t know.
However, from the experience of many, the best things happen JUST LIKE THAT. Unplanned. Unexpected. Improvised. Spontaneous. Not perfect. Still a draft. Still in preparation. Unpolished. Not ready. Full of wonder. Without expectations. Sometimes even with boredom or reluctance.
Has it ever happened to you that the worst beginning of the night with your friends turned out to be one of the best nights? Isn’t that beautiful? We never know what the next moment might bring. We might actually be writing our personal history right now. (Spoiler: We are.)
I am amazed by that – we never actually know how much is going on behind the scenes and how the world is conspiring in our favour. I’m in love with this idea. ❤️
No forcing, no pretending, just living your every day life.
So, do everything with excitement. Because you never know — you might meet your next boyfriend or win a lottery ✨ tonight ✨.
What is your best surprise that happened to you when you were least expecting it?
Tell me in the comments! Thanks for reading — talk to you soon!
Zuzka